With all the things wrong in the world, it’s hard to not get overwhelmed. It can feel like the world is turning to crap.
When I focus on all that is wrong, it puts me in quite a state of helplessness and guilt, not knowing what to do and then feeling guilty about doing nothing. It can be a vicious cycle.
The thing is, guilt is useless. It certainly isn’t good for my mental health and unless it drives me to action, the guilt in itself is pointless. In this video I share a strategy to help not be overwhelmed with all that is happening in the world. Continue reading
I’ll never forget the line in Bridget Jones’ Diary when Mark Darcy told Bridget that he liked her. “Ah, apart from the smoking and the drinking, the vulgar mother and… ah, the verbal diarrhea,” replied Bridget. And Mark said, “No, I like you very much. Just as you are.” Isn’t that what we long for, for people to like us just the way we are.
I came across a brilliant quote by Ram Dass, spiritual teacher and author, where he talks about seeing people as trees.
Let me explain… Continue reading
Change is a constant in life. As an adult we have to deal with the many changes that life throws at us, and as a result, cope with loss.
With change comes loss, because in order to gain one thing we must lose another.
In today’s video I share some wise words from Chelsea Dinsmore, Chief Inspiration Officer at Live Your Legend and also some tips from author, speaker and life coach, Martha Beck on how to deal with change. Continue reading
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For as long as I can remember, I have loved to take nana naps. I’m guessing it started when I was a baby, and it was much more acceptable to nap.
The problem is that although I have always preferred napping to exercise, I know that exercising is an important aspect of living a long and healthy adult life.
Janis Martman, who’s part of the science team at HeadSpace (an awesome meditation app) wrote a great article with science-backed tips on how to motivate yourself to exercise. And that article inspired this video! Continue reading
Sometimes people say nasty comments. Generally these comments say more about the person delivering them, than about the person on the receiving end. As the saying goes, hurt people, hurt people.
There have been times throughout my life when people have said nasty things to me and their comments have played on repeat in my mind.
I decided to ask Gandhi for his advice on this topic. Continue reading
Opinions – everyone has one, or many.
It’s easy to take the opinions of others on board without questioning them. Often in my life people have shared their views with me and I’ve taken them as gospel. And their advice hasn’t always led me to great places.
In this video I share two things I’ve learned about people’s opinions. Continue reading
“The most important thing you can do is do a lot of work. Do a huge volume of work. Put yourself on a deadline so that every week or every month you know you’re going to finish one story. It is only by going through a volume of work that … the work you’re making will be as good as your ambitions.” – Ira Glass
Recently I came across this awesome blog post by writer and researcher James Clear. In it James shares some awesome tips for how to do your best work. I have been a big fan of James’ work for a long time and this post really struck a chord with me. So I decided to turn his post into an animated video. Continue reading
Do you pay attention to the stories you tell yourself?
Optimistic Chic Coaching Founder Stephanie Rogers shares her tips for reframing the negative stories we tell ourselves into positive ones.
I met Stephanie through the Live Your Legend community and she has become a great friend. A talented coach, her wisdom, optimism and positivity is inspiring.
In today’s video Stephanie shares two steps to reframing the things we tell ourselves so we can create positive stories of self-worth. Continue reading
“What do sad people have in common?
It seems they have all built a shrine to the past
And often go there and do a strange wail and worship.
What is the beginning of happiness?
It is to stop
Being so religious
This is one of my favourite poems, because it truly paints a picture of the sadness that is created by holding on to past, painful moments.
Letting go can be super hard. I’m not great at it, but I’m learning to be better.
In today’s video I share 3 tips that I’m working on when it comes to letting go of things. Continue reading
Are you always waiting for the next best thing to come along?
Recently it was my birthday. I turned 28 on the 29th of February. Yes, I’m a leap baby! I have to wait another four years for my next birthday to come around. Technically I’m seven years old.
A friend gave me an awesome book as a present. It’s Not How Good You Are, It’s How Good You Want To Be by Paul Arden is a guide to making the most of yourself. In the book it talks about taking advantage of the opportunity in your hand, instead of always waiting for the “perfect” opportunity to come along.
This point got me thinking and so I decided to create a video about it. Continue reading